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I dont want to be the babysitter in relationship the Tomorrow morning attractive Mesa Arizona lookin for nsa call when they want to go out for dinner etc, but the past few times its to come babysitger just before or after the kid is asleep, and she's a good sleeper!
She goes down at 7 and is in for the night.
They'll plan dinner to be after she's in bed, so I am just there to watch I dont want to be the babysitter in relationship in their house instead of my own. I'm child free by choice. I want to know your kid and have her love me. I want to take her on dates and spend time with them all as a family. My boyfriend loves them too and wants to get to know the baby, but I don't want to be free labor. Can I say "I love spending time with you and your kid and would love to spend more, but babysitting isn't really my thing so I'd prefer only when she's awake and you are home too"?
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I make so many concessions for them, I don't think I should have to give up bwbysitter to sit at their house while they go out. I can do that at my house! They'll suggest I show up early. Like get there at 5 to play with Women want sex Cyril kid before she goes down, but then that's like my whole Saturday. So I'm a jerk if I don't come early to see the kid though it's a big time commitment.
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So I just say nothing? I love my friends but I'm not a 35 year old babysitter. Tl;dr friends keep asking me to babysit. How to say I don't ever want to, I just wanna hang out. First of all I was a liar and exaggerated. We do I dont want to be the babysitter in relationship hang out, she does not ONLY ask me to babysit, she has just been asking more and more for me to just do babysitting gigs after the kid is asleep.
I currently do it maybe every 2 or 3 months but she is asking more and more.
Some awesomely helpful comments. So relationsgip that encouraged me to tell my I dont want to be the babysitter in relationship I didn't want to babysit if it meant her kid was just sleeping, but most people overwhelmingly think I am being way too selfish and that giving up 4 Saturday evenings a year for very dear friends is not at all too much to ask and I should be doing it gladly.
I see your points and will not say a thing to my friend. I certainly can keep doing some occasional babysitting. I do appreciate all relxtionship replies!
It's a delicate balance for us child free gals not wanting to feel taken advantage of and wanting to feel like what WE have chosen to be important in our lives is just as important.
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I'd also love to socialise with you guys more often. But right now, it seems as though I'm only asked over relafionship babysit and even then it's only when she's in bed sleeping the whole time.
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I get you guys want time to yourselves and having a baby is tiring, so I'd love to help you find another sitter. Then that frees me up to spend more quality time with all of you". But if they keep pressing you to babysit, I'm afraid you're just going to have to straight up tell them no. That is amazing, and they will respond really well to it. Actually her husband might wine because I think he probably half trust me and half wants free labor, but my gf is incredible and will probably love hearing that I want to spend time with her kid when I dont want to be the babysitter in relationship awake.
Thank you, this is exactly what I was looking for!!! Also, why not take it upon yourself to plan a girl's night out or even just a lunch? She's not going to be thinking in that direction because her priorities are going to be 1.
Keep the family intact so I can be a good mommy. Date night plays into 2. It is typical for new moms to Sex dating in Ryland forget about themselves. Maybe it would be best to separate the issues. Instead of hitting her with 2 negatives - I never see you and I don't want to babysit, start by Sex dating in Rocky river positive.
Invite her to lunch or whatever it is that you two are used to doing. While you are hanging out, make it a point to tell her how much you enjoy this time and your friendship. See what you I dont want to be the babysitter in relationship do to get you back where you were before baby. Yes, there will be less time, but have a solution. Say, a routine - every other monday lunch or third Thursday drinks on the town, whatever.
You get the point, set things up that way she doesn't misinterpret you. I dont want to be the babysitter in relationship
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If you aren't careful it will sound like you hate her kid and your friendship. She'll be very sensitive to the kid issue, most likely.
And, do you never want to babysit again?
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Also, I can't understand why they don't bring her to you. Ugh, no matter what we say on how to approach her, this is going to go down like a lead balloon. I thought she was asking you I dont want to be the babysitter in relationship a week, for date night. Watching TV for at her house 4 times a year, and giving her a huge relief, well, that's what friends do. She's not going to see you in the same way.
She has definitely kept up her social life. She is a SAHM and has loads of mommies nights out, went on a girls trip with her sister, etc.
She does make an effort to see me, I totally exaggerated that in the OP and Babbysitter sorry, it skewed the view of her. I still see her socially so that doesn't really need to change, I just doht to stop the babysitting, unless it's an emergency.
She's doing just fine managing her life as a mom and wife and wnat and sister etc. OK that was really my reason for asking here.
If people think that I need to watch her kid once every few months just as a decent human being, I can certainly do that! No I don't want to, but I'm 35, I am not going to be miserable and cry.
I would rather be at home, or out with friends, or hanging with my friends AND Sex dating in palo alto kid at their house. I do NOT want to "babysit" for Saturday nights a year. But if that's what a good friend does and she'll "view me differently" if I don't relationsnip to, so be it, I'll babysit her child.
Adult wants nsa Canton Ohio 44705 suppose that is the choice I made when 20 years ago I befriended a girl relationnship would one day have a child. I added an edit, when I saw the frequency. I edited my response for your edit. So ridiculous to me that it's "not going to go well" and that for some reason because she had a child I I dont want to be the babysitter in relationship to babysit 4 times a year.
I have a ton of friends with kids. Probably 20 kids are the spawn of very close friends of mine. When is it okay to draw the line? No they don't all ask me to babysit. If they all did could I say no? But just one friend asking I can't say no?
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I don't know, don't have kids if you are going to rely on your friends to watch them right? But no, that's a cunty thing to say and even feeling that was will ruin friendships and make things "not go well".
Hahaha, oh man, this took a turn but that really rubbed me the wrong way that telling her I don't want to be her babysitter EVER is "not going to go well". You know, I'm wanf your side. It's not your kid nor your Ladies wanting a good fuck. But, have you ever been in one of those situations where being right didn't make you happy?
It's just one of those. It's not "cunty" to speculate on another person's emotional response. There is a divide there between who I am and I dont want to be the babysitter in relationship I think vs what I believe your friend will think.