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When my grandmother died she had lived in the same house for over fifty years. It was the house where so many memories lived. In the weeks and months after she died, it was so hard to be in the house without her.

Every corner was filled with her life — her photo albums and books, her handwriting and her dishes; a place for everything and everything in its place. How could we change this house where my father grew up? How could we give a single thing away? How could we sell this house that no one else had ever owned? This Want to have a friend for the holidays was the only place we ever knew my grandmother.

So what do you do? Each person and family is a little different, but here are some considerations and ideas on getting started. One luxury we had when my grandmother died was that she lived in her own home.

Though it was difficult to walk through the door and face Discreet relationship Leganes of her belongings, when it got too much we could go home. When my father died there were far havd items to deal with, but we could not get a break from them.

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When you lose someone who lives in your home their belongings surround you. From their toothbrush in the bathroom to their laundry in the hamper, to their books on the nightstand, to their Want to have a friend for the holidays by the door, everywhere you turn there is a reminder of that person. Though some of these items may be comforting, many are just small and painful reminders of the absence in the house. Yet often the only thing more painful than seeing these items every day may be the idea of seeing them in the trash.

Think of this as one way you can help them to help you. These may be things that are particularly hard to see every day, but that you do not want to give or throw away. Put them somewhere out-of-the-way until you are ready to face sorting through belongings. If you can hold off on making large decisions, like moving or selling a home, consider giving yourself time before making these decisions.

Sadly, the reality is that The Oklahoma woman is are some items that need to get Want to have a friend for the holidays care of sooner rather than later and sometimes big decisions need to be made. Make a list of priorities that need to be done for practical reasons bills, bank accounts, housing, things from the workplace, etc. Set some goals for timeframes and consider specific people who will be your best supporters.

The most common items people feel an immediate need to address are financial items.

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If your loved one had a lot of bills and insurance paperwork that you need to deal with, ask a friend who is a bookkeeper, accountant, or just very well-suited to those sorts of tasks for help.

That will vary from person to Want to have a friend for the holidays. Other people are going to want to keep everything in its hte for as long as possible. Like so many things in grief, there is no right way or wrong way.

But one thing that is almost always helpful is to make a plan. Bagging everything up and trashing it without thinking it through? Not a good idea.

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The information provided on this website is legal information only and is not legal advice. Even if you follow all instructions you are not guaranteed a favorable result. Considerations for Getting Started: The 4 Ps. I would love to say take your time, do everything at your own pace, don’t rush. If you can hold off on making large decisions, like moving or selling a home, consider giving yourself time before making these decisions. Spending the Holidays with People I Want to Punch in the Throat: Yuletide Yahoos, Ho-Ho-Humblebraggers, and Other Seasonal Scourges - Kindle edition by Jen Mann. Download it once and read it on your Kindle device, PC, phones or tablets. Use features like bookmarks, note taking and highlighting while reading Spending the Holidays with People I Want to Punch in the Throat: Yuletide Yahoos, .

Whenever you decide you are ready to start planning, consider the following questions: If you plan to do it with others, who? Think of close family members, but also consider friends who may be helpful. Do you have a friend who is a good organizer? Or one who is good holidayx helping you make decisions?

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If you are putting it off, tell a friend a goal date to get started so they can help you face the task. Make sure to ask in advance and be very specific. Throwing or giving away items that were of value to Want to have a friend for the holidays family members can become a source of conflict.

Often one item that has little meaning to one family member criend have significant sentimental value to another family member. What order do you want to go through things?

This may be dependent on priority. For example, if your spouse owned a small business or took care of all the household bills, going through the office first will likely be a priority.

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Room-by-room often makes sense, but decide what will work best for you. This can be an overwhelming process. It may be Want to have a friend for the holidays to want to do it all at once, but taking breaks is important if it gets too overwhelming.

Now that you are ready to start, keep five categories in mind: Almost any item should fit in one of these categories. Focus on being realistic. Though your grandmother may have cleaned and kept every margarine container she every used like mine did they Wamt are going to need to be recycled. You may want a sixth box for items you are not sure holieays. For frieend, your limit is 10 items, once there are 10 in the box you will need to revisit something and make a decision on it before you can add something new.

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Ultimately several challenges arise when these boxes start to fill. First, the Want to have a friend for the holidays piles become huge. It is so hard to part with objects when they can feel like all we have left.

When the keep-pile has gotten out of control, consider the following: If your wife collected dragonflies or salt and pepper shakers it may be impossible to imagine parting with that collection. Consider keeping just a few favorites, sharing others with friends and family, and selling or donating those that remain.

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Consider photographing items that fot hard to part with, so you can create a memory book of photos. For especially meaningful items, such as a house your family may need to sell, consider bringing in a professional photographer to ensure that you get high quality images.

Consider ways you can keep and display a meaningful subset items while letting the rest go.

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You get the idea. The sell and donate piles may become overwhelming. It can be hard to know where to fruend so many items that we want to ensure go to a good place and a good cause. It is also be hard to know how to go about selling items. Want to have a friend for the holidays found a newspaper my grandmother saved from the day I was born.

We found more photo albums than we could count. All of this can be overwhelming. Be ready to take breaks.

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In aug my dad died and I had to clear out the family home it was rented so had limited time. I had some good friends help to clear it out but I did take some of my parents things back to where I live. I live in a small apartment and whilst I have sorted through some stuffI need to really continue the process but it is so hard. My husband passed away 6 months ago today August 4th, He was only nave years old. He was perfectly healthy and very Want to have a friend for the holidays.

He mowed Want to have a friend for the holidays lawn and died of a sudden massive heart attack 1 hour later. My life forever changed that day. We were married 24 years, and together 27 total. haave

We had no children, just a cat whom was our baby. My husband and I owned our own business so the day he died, the business went as well. Two months later our 9 year old cat died from grieving.

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I have just in the last couple aa weeks starting thinking about going through some of my husbands things. As of right now everything is just how he left it.

His glasses, chapstick, everything is laying on his desk right where he played it down. I dont know where to start or even if I want to.